About

Why I'm Sharing This Publicly

Dating is messy. It's full of contradictions, patterns we don't see until someone points them out, and moments that feel profound in the dark but silly in the morning light. I wanted to capture that honestly—not as a polished highlight reel, but as something raw, vulnerable, and real.

By writing this publicly, I'm holding myself accountable to growth. To noticing my patterns. To being the kind of person I'd want to date. And maybe, just maybe, someone reading this will recognize themselves in these sessions—and feel a little less alone in their own journey.

What Are "Sessions"?

Sessions are my conversations with Sofia C., written like screenplay scripts. They're a hybrid of memoir and cinema—dialogue that's real but shaped for storytelling. Every session explores a pattern, a realization, or a choice I'm navigating in my dating life.

The screenplay format isn't just aesthetic—it creates distance that allows honesty. When you write yourself as a character, you can see your blind spots more clearly. You can say things out loud that you'd normally rationalize away.

Who Is Sofia C.?

Sofia C. is my matchmaker. She's elegant, direct, and impossibly perceptive. She sees through my charm and wit to the patterns I'm too close to notice. She asks the questions I avoid asking myself.

She's both a guide and a mirror—someone who challenges me to want what I say I want, and to notice when I'm choosing the opposite. Her office has a golden flamingo that moves. I don't ask questions.

What You Can Do Here

You can read the Sessions as they unfold—each one a snapshot of where I am in this journey. You can browse the Date Ideas catalog, where I've curated experiences that actually sound appealing (to me, at least). And if one resonates with you, you can book it. Yes, really.

This isn't just a blog—it's an invitation. To witness. To engage. To maybe see your own patterns reflected back at you. And if you're feeling brave, to reach out and suggest breakfast.

About Me

I'm 31, living in Berlin, and as a man I'm looking for something real—with a woman who wants a life partner, not just a series of interesting evenings.

This site is written in English because, honestly, it sounds cooler. But there's something about connecting in German that feels more grounded, more like home. If you speak it, that's a quiet plus. I'm not laying down rules here—just noticing what resonates.

This whole project is an experiment in being intentional, in choosing growth over comfort, and in hoping that putting myself out here might lead me to a woman who values depth, honesty, and building something lasting.

Maybe that's you.