maybe date me.

A cinematic journal about dating, patterns, charm, and emotional growth.

This is a public experiment in modern dating. A journal where vulnerability meets storytelling, and every session reveals something unexpected about connection, choice, and charm.

Sessions are written like screenplay scripts—conversations with my matchmaker, Sofia C. Each session explores patterns, decisions, and reflections on what it means to find warmth, resonance, and maybe someone worth breakfast.

You can read the sessions, browse curated date ideas, and witness a real journey unfold in real time. No filters. No conclusions. Just honest exploration.

New
Dating Style Test
Find out how you love. (And how you accidentally self-sabotage. Respectfully.)

This is a quick, slightly too-accurate test that reveals your dating style — the charm, the patterns, and the part of you that says “I’m fine” while clearly not being fine.

Take it if you’re curious. Take it if you’re brave. Or take it because the truth is cheaper than therapy.

Latest Sessions

Recent conversations from the matchmaking desk

Session 8
The Date That Felt Like a Group Project
I went on a date. It felt like a group project where both people pretend to contribute equally, but one is clearly carrying the emotional PowerPoint.
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Session 7
The Plan (Apparently I Needed One)
Sofia decided I need structure. I thought I had one. Turns out I had vibes. She built a plan. I negotiated creative freedom.
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Session 6
Dating Advice Is a Very Confident Industry
I spent ten minutes reading dating advice online. I now understand absolutely everything about love. According to the internet.
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Featured Date Ideas

Curated experiences worth saying yes to

Saturday Market Walk
75 minutes

Fresh bread, flowers, questionable cheese samples, and unplanned conversation. A walk through a weekend market reveals taste, curiosity, and how someone negotiates strawberries.

MorningCasualFoodOutdoor
Storydate
The Worst Date Ever
90 minutes

You need:

  • a willingness to embrace awkwardness
  • at least one intentionally terrible idea
ExperimentAbsurdPlayfulChaos
Storydate
Newly Engaged
90 minutes

You need:

  • a convincing engagement story
  • the ability to say 'we just got engaged!' with a straight face
ExperimentPlayfulImprovisationFunny