maybe date me.

A cinematic journal about dating, patterns, charm, and emotional growth.

This is a public experiment in modern dating. A journal where vulnerability meets storytelling, and every session reveals something unexpected about connection, choice, and charm.

Sessions are written like screenplay scripts—conversations with my matchmaker, Sofia C. Each session explores patterns, decisions, and reflections on what it means to find warmth, resonance, and maybe someone worth breakfast.

You can read the sessions, browse curated date ideas, and witness a real journey unfold in real time. No filters. No conclusions. Just honest exploration.

New
Dating Style Test
Find out how you love. (And how you accidentally self-sabotage. Respectfully.)

This is a quick, slightly too-accurate test that reveals your dating style — the charm, the patterns, and the part of you that says “I’m fine” while clearly not being fine.

Take it if you’re curious. Take it if you’re brave. Or take it because the truth is cheaper than therapy.

Latest Sessions

Recent conversations from the matchmaking desk

Session 3
Scent, Strategy & the Tip Debate
Sofia asked about my fragrance. I said Tuxedo by YSL. She wrote something down and refused to elaborate. Also: I pay the bill. She handles the tip. Civilization remains intact.
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Session 2
Three Things I Offer (Plus Ice Cream)
I approached a woman in a café and escalated to Thursday faster than expected. She said yes. Also: I had homework.
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Session 1
No More Baristas (Probably)
I went on a fourth date with a barista. Statistically irresponsible. The coffee? Perfect. The pattern? Loud.
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Featured Date Ideas

Curated experiences worth saying yes to

Storydate
Dealer’s Choice
120 minutes

You need:

  • openness
  • a far too confident “I knew it” reaction
TrustSurpriseAdventurousFlavored
Beginner Dance Class
120 minutes

Two beginners, one rhythm, zero expectations. Step on a few toes, laugh about it, and let physical coordination replace small talk. Connection accelerates when you move in sync.

InteractivePlayfulSlightly IntimateMemorable
Storydate
Low Stakes Magic
90 minutes

You need:

  • your favorite outfit
  • an overly dramatic excuse in case you lose
FunCompetitiveEaseSpontaneous